Stop a Divorce Spell

A stop a divorce spell is layered work for a marriage that is heading toward divorce while at least one of you still wants to save it. Baba Ali Musa does it in three steps, in order: cleansing what has built up between you, sweetening the anger, then binding the marriage back together, each timed to the moon. It works on the bond, not the legal process. It does not replace a lawyer, a counselor or a mediator. The reading is free, you pay for materials only, and most clients see the first signs within 3–7 days. If you don’t, you get a full refund.

Why saving a marriage takes more than one ritual

By the time divorce is on the table, a marriage has usually been through a lot: repeated fights, hurt, maybe outside interference, maybe a betrayal. A single drawing or binding ritual on top of all that rarely holds. The weight has to be cleared first, the anger softened second, and only then can the bond be strengthened. That order is the heart of this work.

Divorce is common. The CDC’s National Center for Health Statistics reports a U.S. divorce rate of 2.4 per 1,000 people in 2022 (CDC/NCHS). Many of those divorces follow a long stretch in which one partner hoped things would turn around.

Who this spell helps

• Spouses whose partner has asked for a divorce they do not want.
• Couples who have separated but not yet filed.
• Marriages where divorce keeps being threatened in arguments.
• Couples in the middle of proceedings who both feel doubt.
• Marriages where family or a third person is pushing toward divorce.

Signs the marriage can still be saved

• You still talk, even if it is tense.
• Your spouse hesitates, delays or seems unsure.
• The reasons for divorce are about hurt and distance rather than danger.
• There is shared history you both still value, such as children, a home or years together.

“A marriage near its end is heavy. You cannot pull something heavy until you lighten it first.”Baba Ali Musa

How Baba Ali performs the work

First: cleansing

On the waning moon, salt, herbs and a white candle clear the weight between you: resentment, outside pressure, old hurt.

Second: sweetening

A honey jar with your two names softens the anger so conversations can be calm again.

Third: binding

On the full moon, a marriage cord is tied to strengthen the bond and the wish to stay together.

Aftercare

Your notes cover how to handle conversations about the marriage during this time, and how to support any counseling or mediation you are doing.

What you provide

• Your first name and date of birth
• Your spouse’s first name
• Where things stand: separated, filed, or talking about it
• What led to this point, in your own words

The materials and what they mean

• Salt and cleansing herbs lift the weight that has built up.
• The honey jar softens anger and brings kindness back.
• The marriage cord strengthens the bond once the ground is ready.
• The moon sets the order: waning to clear, growing to sweeten, full to bind.

What results look like

Clients often see the tone change first: calmer conversations, a spouse willing to talk, proceedings slowed or paused, a suggestion of counseling, time spent together again.

Most clients see the first signs within 3–7 days. If you don’t, you get a full refund.

Results vary. Your spouse makes their own decisions, and the guarantee sits on your money for that reason.

Important: this is not legal advice

Spiritual work does not change court processes or legal deadlines. If divorce papers have been filed, speak to a family lawyer about your rights and timelines. If there is abuse in the marriage, this work is refused, and help is available at the National Domestic Violence Hotline, 1-800-799-7233.

Myths about stopping a divorce

“Once papers are filed, it is over.”

Many couples reconcile during proceedings. What matters is whether the bond is still alive, which the reading checks.

“One powerful spell will fix everything.”

Heavy situations need layered work in the right order. Anyone promising a single instant fix is not being straight with you.

Related work

• Constant fighting at the heart of it: Reconciliation Spell
• Another person involved: Clear Third-Party Interference
• Healing after betrayal: Heal a Broken Relationship

What this spell will not do

A week-by-week picture

Week one: cleansing

The reading, then cleansing on the waning moon. Many clients feel the tension at home ease a little, or notice their own panic settling, which helps every conversation that follows.

Weeks two and three: sweetening

The honey jar is prepared and tended. First signs often show here: a calmer phone call, a spouse who answers instead of ignoring, an argument that ends sooner than it would have.

Week four: binding

On the full moon the marriage cord is tied. In the weeks after, clients often describe more time together, talk of counseling, or a spouse who wants to slow down the divorce and think again.

These are typical patterns, not a schedule. Some marriages move faster; some need longer between stages. Baba Ali tells you what your case needs before each stage begins.

Talking to your spouse during this time

How you talk to your spouse in these weeks matters as much as anything done at the altar. A few things tend to help:

• Lower the temperature. Speak calmly, even if they do not.
• Do not beg, and do not threaten. Both push people further away.
• Listen to their reasons all the way through before answering.
• Take responsibility for your part without taking the blame for everything.
• Keep conversations short when they are tense, and end them kindly.

Your aftercare notes go into more detail, but the heart of it is simple: be the person your spouse would want to come home to, and let the work soften the rest.

If you have children

Children feel the strain of a marriage in trouble even when nobody tells them. Keep them out of the adult conversations. Never use them to pass messages, and never ask them to take sides. Keep their routines as steady as you can. If they ask what is happening, give simple, honest answers suited to their age, and reassure them that both parents love them. Protecting them is part of protecting the marriage.

Counseling and mediation

If your spouse is willing, a marriage and family therapist can help you both talk safely about hard things. The American Association for Marriage and Family Therapy has information on what therapy involves and how to find a therapist (AAMFT). If the divorce is already moving, a mediator can help you both slow down and make decisions with less conflict. Spiritual work does not compete with any of this. Many clients find the work makes a spouse more willing to try counseling in the first place.

When your spouse is seeing someone else

If another person is involved, that influence is cleared before any binding is done. Binding a marriage while a third person is still pulling on one spouse rarely holds. Clearing interference removes that pull without harming anyone, and it is often added as an extra step at the start of the work.

When the honest answer is to let go

Sometimes the reading shows that the bond has closed on your spouse’s side, or that the marriage is not safe. When that happens, Baba Ali tells you, kindly and plainly. It is one of the hardest things to hear. It also spares you months of hope and money spent on work that could not help. In those cases, the most useful next step is often healing for yourself, so you can move through the divorce with less pain and open to love again later.

Preparing for your reading

Gather the basic facts: how long you have been married, whether you have children, whether either of you has moved out, and whether papers have been filed. Think about what went wrong, including your own part. If there has been cheating, say so. If there has been any violence or threats, say that too, because it changes what can and cannot be done. Everything you share is private.

Aftercare in the weeks that follow

Keep your side of the marriage as calm and kind as you can. Follow your lawyer’s advice on anything legal, and keep any court dates or deadlines. Look after yourself: eat, sleep, lean on a friend you trust. A marriage in crisis is exhausting, and people make their worst decisions when they are worn out.

Share what you notice at each check-in: tone, contact, any change in plans. If you see no change within 3–7 days of the work beginning, you get a full refund.

Living apart during the work

If your spouse has moved out, contact may be limited to practical matters: children, bills, belongings. Those small exchanges matter more than they seem. Be reliable, polite and easy to deal with. Do not use every practical call to reopen the marriage. When your spouse sees that talking to you has become calm again, the door to a deeper conversation opens on its own.

Birthdays, holidays and anniversaries

Special dates are hard when a marriage is in trouble. A wedding anniversary can bring grief, and a holiday can bring pressure to act as if nothing is wrong. Plan ahead. Decide what you will do on the day, who you will spend it with, and whether a short, kind message to your spouse is appropriate. Avoid using the date to make a big emotional appeal. Many couples find that a calm, low-key acknowledgment of a shared date softens things more than any grand gesture.

Signs the work is moving

• Your spouse answers calls or messages they had been ignoring.
• Conversations stay calm for longer.
• Your spouse agrees to counseling, mediation or simply more time.
• Legal steps slow down or pause.

If you were the one who asked for the divorce

Not every client is the spouse who was left. Some asked for the divorce themselves, in anger or exhaustion, and now regret it. If that is you, the work is the same, and so is the human part: take responsibility for how things ended, speak to your spouse calmly, and give them time to trust that the change of heart is real. It can take a while for a spouse who felt rejected to believe you.

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Last updated Sep 30, 2026