Spells to Get Your Ex Back

A spell to get your ex back is drawing-back work for a recent breakup: a ritual that turns your ex’s thoughts back to you and reopens the path to talking again. Baba Ali Musa performs it with a dressed candle, honey and your two first names on a growing moon, the phase the tradition uses for drawing someone back. It works best in the first months after a breakup, while the door is still open. The reading is free, you pay for materials only, and most clients see the first signs within 3–7 days. If you don’t, you get a full refund.

Why timing matters after a breakup

In the first weeks after a breakup, feelings are raw on both sides. Your ex may be angry, relieved, confused or already regretting it. Pride often stops them reaching out. This is the window where drawing-back work is strongest, because the bond between you is still warm.

As months pass without contact, the bond cools. That does not make it hopeless, but it changes the work. If you have been apart for more than six months or have had no contact for a long time, a return lost lover spell is usually the better fit.

Who this spell is for

• You broke up within the last few months and still think about them every day.
• The breakup came out of an argument, a misunderstanding or a bad stretch, not a slow fade.
• You feel something was left unsaid.
• You still have some contact, even if it is only the occasional message.
• They seem to check on you: viewing your stories, asking friends about you.

Signs your ex is not done with you

• They reply when you message, even briefly.
• They have not removed photos of the two of you.
• They mention you to mutual friends.
• They reach out on anniversaries or birthdays.
• They are not in a serious new relationship.

These are not guarantees of anything. They are signs the bond is still open, which is what the reading checks properly.

“A breakup is a door that closed. I look at whether it closed gently or slammed. Both can open again, in different ways.”Baba Ali Musa

How Baba Ali performs the ritual

The reading

Baba Ali reads why the relationship ended, whether the bond is still alive, and what stands between you now. If the breakup involved someone new, that is cleared first. If the reading shows the door is fully closed, you hear that, and nothing is charged.

The drawing-back candle

A candle is dressed with drawing oils and carved with your two first names. It is set on the altar with honey, to sweeten the way your ex remembers you, and with herbs used in the tradition for return and reconciliation.

The timing

The ritual is performed on a growing moon, the phase kept for drawing someone back. Your tracker shows the date before you agree and updates when the work is done.

Aftercare

Your aftercare notes cover the part most people get wrong: what to do when your ex reaches out. Stay warm, stay light, and let the conversation grow on its own.

What you provide

• Your first name and date of birth
• Your ex’s first name
• When and why you broke up, in your own words
• How much contact you have now

Nothing else about your ex is needed, and your request is encrypted before it is stored.

What results look like

The first sign is often contact: a message, a like, a reply that is warmer than the last one. Some clients hear from a mutual friend first. Others dream about the relationship and then hear from their ex a few days later. Once contact returns, conversations tend to get easier, and the aftercare notes help you keep them that way.

Most clients see the first signs within 3–7 days. If you don’t, you get a full refund.

Results vary. Your ex makes their own choices, and the guarantee sits on your money for that reason.

Mistakes that slow the work down

• Sending long messages about the relationship right after the ritual
• Posting pointed things on social media for them to see
• Asking friends to pass on messages
• Booking extra work with other casters at the same time
• Bringing up old arguments the moment they reach out

Related work

• Apart for more than six months: Return Lost Lover Spell
• They are seeing someone new: Clear Third-Party Interference
• You want the reunion to hold: Binding Love Spells

What this spell will not do

Why exes come back, and why some don’t

Getting back together is more common than most heartbroken people believe. In a study of young adults published in the Journal of Marriage and Family, Halpern-Meekin and colleagues found that 44% had broken up and later reconciled with a partner at least once (Halpern-Meekin et al., 2013). Relationships that end in a rush of anger are often the ones with the most unfinished feeling left in them.

What decides whether an ex comes back is usually a mix of three things: whether the bond is still warm, whether the reason for the breakup can be worked through, and how each person behaves after it ends. Drawing-back work speaks to the first. The reading tells you honestly about the second. Your aftercare notes help with the third.

A week-by-week picture

Days one to three

The ritual is performed on a growing moon. Keep your distance and your dignity. Do not send long messages or check their profile every hour.

Days three to seven

This is when most clients see the first signs: a reply, a like, a question, a message from a mutual friend. Answer warmly and briefly. Let them lead.

Weeks two to four

Contact tends to become more regular. A call, a coffee, a longer conversation. Leave the big talk about what went wrong until the connection feels steady.

Situations Baba Ali sees most

General patterns from consultations, not client stories:

• A breakup after one big argument that neither person meant to be final.
• An ex who said they needed space and then went quiet.
• A breakup driven by outside stress: money, family, a move.
• An ex who keeps viewing stories and liking posts but will not message.
• A breakup where both people behaved badly and both regret it.

Myths about getting an ex back

“No contact always works.”

Space helps, but silence alone does not repair a bond. Many clients come after months of no contact that changed nothing.

“If they have a new partner, it is over.”

Not always. Rebound relationships are common. The reading shows whether your bond is still alive and whether interference needs clearing first.

“Begging shows how much you care.”

It usually pushes people further away. Calm warmth works better, which is why aftercare matters as much as the ritual.

Preparing for your consultation

Write down, in a few lines, why you broke up and who ended it. Note how much contact you have had since and in what form. Think about what would need to be different this time. That honesty lets the reading be precise, and it lets Baba Ali tell you plainly if another ritual would serve you better.

The materials and what they mean

• The drawing candle is carved with both first names and dressed with oils used for return. It burns toward you, the way the work asks your ex’s thoughts to turn toward you.
• Honey sweetens how your ex remembers the relationship, softening the bitterness a breakup leaves.
• Return herbs used in the tradition for reconciliation are laid around the candle.
• The growing moon is the phase for calling something back, so the ritual is timed to it.

You are told which materials your ritual needs and what they cost before anything is bought. There is no spell fee.

What to do if your ex reaches out

This is the moment most people get wrong, so it is worth planning for. Answer within a reasonable time, not instantly. Keep the first reply short and warm. Ask one light question back. Do not bring up the breakup, the new person, or what you have been through. If they suggest meeting, say yes to something simple and public, like a coffee. Let the second and third conversations carry more weight than the first. Your aftercare notes will have details specific to your case.

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Aftercare in the first weeks

The first weeks after a breakup are when people make the mistakes that slow the work down most: late-night messages, drunk calls, long emails, showing up unannounced. Protect yourself from those moments. Delete the draft instead of sending it. Ask a friend to hold your phone on a night out if you need to. It is not about playing games. It is about letting your ex miss you, rather than feel pursued.

Look after your body, too. Eat, sleep, move, and spend time with people who care about you. Heartbreak is physically draining, and you will handle any contact from your ex far better if you are rested. Share any signs at your check-in. If you see no change within 3–7 days, you get a full refund.

Signs the work is moving

A reply that is warmer than the last one. Your ex viewing your stories or profile. A mutual friend mentioning that your ex asked about you. A message out of nowhere. Note each sign and share it at your check-in.

Getting your ex back: questions

Last updated Sep 30, 2026