Commitment Spell

A commitment spell is full-moon work for a relationship that has love but no promise. It is for the partner who says they care but will not talk about the future, moving in, marriage or even being exclusive. Baba Ali Musa performs it with a ring cord, gold and white candles and honey on the night of the full moon, the phase the tradition keeps for vows. It strengthens the part of a bond that wants to stay. The reading is free, you pay for materials only, and most clients see the first signs within 3–7 days. If you don’t, you get a full refund.

Love without a promise

Some relationships are warm, close and happy, and still stuck. One person is ready for the next step. The other keeps saying “not yet”, “let’s see”, or changes the subject. Years can pass this way. The waiting wears on the person who is ready, and the relationship starts to feel uncertain even when nothing is wrong.

Commitment work does not change who your partner is. It works on the fear, hesitation and distraction that stand between them and a decision they already half want to make.

Who this spell is for

• You have been together a long time and the future never gets discussed.
• Your partner loves you but will not be exclusive.
• You are engaged, but the wedding keeps getting postponed.
• Your partner had a bad past experience and is afraid to commit again.
• You have reconciled after a breakup and want this time to be serious.

Signs a partner is close to committing

• They introduce you to family and friends.
• They talk about “we” when they make plans.
• They get uncomfortable, not dismissive, when commitment comes up.
• They are faithful and present, just hesitant.

“Most people who won’t commit are not saying no. They are saying they are afraid. The work speaks to the fear.”Baba Ali Musa

How Baba Ali performs the ritual

The reading

Baba Ali reads whether your partner’s hesitation comes from fear, from outside pressure, or from somewhere else. If someone else is involved, that is cleared first. If the reading shows your partner does not want a future together, you hear it honestly.

The ring cord

A single cord is tied into a closed ring with both first names bound inside it, the way a vow closes a circle. It is dressed with oils used for loyalty and commitment.

The full moon

Gold and white candles are lit around the ring cord on the night of the full moon, with honey to keep the commitment warm rather than pressured.

Aftercare

Your notes cover how to talk about the future after the ritual: when to raise it, how to listen, and how to avoid ultimatums that push a hesitant partner away.

What you provide

• Your first name and date of birth
• Your partner’s first name
• How long you have been together and what commitment you want
• What happens when the subject comes up

What results look like

Commitment tends to show up as small steps before big ones: your partner bringing up the future themselves, talking about next year, suggesting you move in, or asking what you want. For engaged couples, dates start getting set.

Most clients see the first signs within 3–7 days. If you don’t, you get a full refund.

Results vary, and the decision stays your partner’s. The guarantee sits on your money for that reason.

Related work

• For marriage specifically: Voodoo Marriage Spell
• For devotion in a drifting bond: Binding Love Spells
• If family is against the relationship: Clear Third-Party Interference

What this spell will not do

Why some people struggle to commit

Hesitation about commitment usually has a story behind it. A parent’s divorce. A past partner who left. Money worries. A fear of losing freedom that has little to do with you. Marriage is also happening later than it used to: the U.S. Census Bureau reports that the median age at first marriage has risen to about 30 for men and about 28 for women (U.S. Census Bureau). Waiting is more common than it once was, which makes it easy for a hesitant partner to keep waiting.

Commitment work speaks to the fear underneath the delay. It strengthens the part of your partner that already wants to stay, so the decision feels less like a leap and more like a next step.

The ring and the full moon

A closed circle is one of the oldest symbols of a vow, which is why rings are exchanged at weddings in so many cultures. In this ritual, a single cord is tied into a ring with your two names bound inside it, then blessed under the full moon, the night the tradition keeps for promises. Gold candles ask for steadiness; white candles ask for sincerity.

A week-by-week picture

Before the full moon

The reading shows where the hesitation comes from. Materials are gathered and the ritual is scheduled for the full moon.

The first week after

Clients often notice their partner using “we” more, talking about plans further ahead, or bringing up the future unprompted. Resist the urge to push; let it come from them.

Weeks two to eight

Bigger steps tend to follow in their own time: a conversation about moving in, meeting family, exclusivity, or setting a wedding date.

Situations Baba Ali sees most

General patterns from consultations, not client stories:

• A couple together five years or more with no talk of marriage.
• An engagement where the wedding keeps getting pushed back.
• A partner who says “I love you” but will not call it a relationship.
• Someone whose partner was hurt by divorce and fears repeating it.
• A couple back together after a breakup who want this time to last.

Myths about commitment spells

“A commitment spell makes someone propose.”

No. The decision stays your partner’s. The work eases the fear that stops a loving partner from deciding.

“If they loved me, they would have committed already.”

Plenty of people love deeply and still freeze at commitment. Fear and love often live side by side.

“An ultimatum will speed things up.”

It usually does the opposite with a hesitant partner, which is why your aftercare notes cover how to raise the future without pressure.

Preparing for your consultation

Think about what commitment means to you: exclusivity, living together, marriage, children. Think about what happens when the subject comes up and whether your partner has said why they hesitate. The clearer you are about what you want, the more precisely the work can be aimed.

The materials and what they mean

• The ring cord is a single cord tied into a closed circle, with both names bound inside. It stands for the vow you want to share.
• Gold candles ask for steadiness and loyalty. White candles ask for sincerity, so the promise is meant.
• Honey keeps the commitment warm, so it feels like a gift rather than pressure.
• Loyalty oils used in the tradition dress the cord before it is tied.
• The full moon is the night of vows, and the ritual is timed to it.

Aftercare: talking about the future

Pick a relaxed moment, not the middle of an argument or a special occasion loaded with expectations. Talk about what you enjoy about your life together now before you talk about what you want next. Ask your partner what they imagine a year from now, and listen more than you speak. If they raise a fear, treat it as information, not rejection. A partner who feels understood tends to move toward commitment on their own, and that is the kind of promise that lasts.

Commitment across distance

Long-distance couples often reach a point where one person wants a clear promise and the other keeps saying “when we are in the same city.” Distance can make commitment feel abstract, and it can give a hesitant partner an easy reason to wait. Commitment work helps here in the same way it does for couples who live together: it eases fear and strengthens the wish to promise. On the practical side, it helps to talk about a timeline for closing the distance, even a rough one. A plan is a kind of commitment in itself. Long-distance work can be paired with this ritual where distance is the main strain.

Commitment work compared

When waiting stops being healthy

Patience is part of love, and many partners need time before they can promise. There is also a point where waiting starts to cost you: years pass, your own plans stall, and you begin to feel you are asking for too much when you are asking for something ordinary. It is fair to know what you need and roughly when. It is fair to say it calmly. If the reading shows that your partner does not want a shared future, Baba Ali will tell you, because your time matters too. If it shows fear rather than a lack of love, the work has something to ease.

Signs the work is moving

• Your partner talks about the future in “we” rather than “I.”
• Plans stretch further ahead: holidays next year, a shared lease, meeting family.
• Conversations about commitment feel calmer and less defensive.
• Your partner brings up the subject before you do.

Share what you notice at your check-in, even the small things.

Living together without a promise

Many couples move in together before any promise is made, and for a while that feels like enough. Then years pass. Bills and furniture are shared, but the conversation about marriage or a long-term future never quite happens. One partner starts to feel like a placeholder. If this sounds familiar, you are not being unreasonable for wanting more. Commitment work helps a partner who has settled into comfort take the next step from choice rather than habit. It also helps to talk about what living together means to each of you, because couples often discover they assumed very different things.

Commitment spell: questions

Last updated Sep 30, 2026